Saturday, October 18, 2008

'Live In ' in India ...

Mankind are governed more by their feelings than by reason.
Samuel Adams



India is widely known as a country with strong moral values and traditional integrity. Perhaps, that’s why bold exhibitions of romance go for a toss in such a typical society, least being something like live-in-relationships in India. The union of a man and a woman is considered as one of the most sacred acts in this country. No wonder, living together before marriage is something sounds unethical according to our culture and prevailing society.
We in India always try to imitate the west but don't know the fact they are like that only, we msut develop our own recognition why we always try to copy thier lifestyle , its a matter of fact that in western life style morals and ethics have no values , marriage like social institution is loosing its importance there. Its not just a prediction there are surveys I'm just trying to figure out the image and want to show the real image on mirror of life.
Incited by anything from movies to daily soaps, the younger generation, although in a population that is quite minor, has started leading a very liberal lifestyle.
Maharastra Government's proposal for legalizing Live-In Relationships has led to much controversies all over the nation.
The logic behind such law is that youngster don’t want to get married and get succumbed to consequences of marriage .Since they are so busy in their lifestyle they don’t have time for being married and spent life .But they do have time to share the bed without any formalities and legalities . In metros such an ideology is not uncommon they are doing like that, then what is the need of law to enforce such a thing under certain boundaries.
How can you decide that what should be the minimum period of time that both partners should share? What’s thesurity that it will help in preventing spread of AIDS ?There will arise a lot of complexities & questions while its implementation, and a lot of miscreants will misinterpret these laws to defend themselves and that will create more trouble.
In my opinion if India has become so much advanced and outgoing then why not to leaglise prostitution ? why dance bars are banned, why innocent Bar girls are put under trials , why the rave parties are banned ..there a lots of why and no question to them at all.
So I think government should rethink over this issue , are we not loosing our values in this way it will only promote wrong message for coming generations . So please let India be what it was known for .

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